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Showing posts with label holidays. Show all posts
Showing posts with label holidays. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

The Fading of Fall

So tomorrow is Thanksgiving, and in my mind, the official end of fall.  Maybe that's why it's never really been one of my favorite holidays.  I can be thankful (and try my best to be) every day.  I don't need a special day to realize how blessed I am no matter bad things look from time to time.  This month in particular has been a trying one.  We'll no doubt run out of money before the end of the month, and I've already got commitments to pay past due bills on the first, so we'll be going into December already behind.

That means several things, next month is going to be rough, and well, no one is getting any gifts for Christmas.  It'll be okay though, we had the same situation last year and it seems like the holidays end up being even more special because we realize that the frills and fluff aren't the most important things after all.

I'm getting ahead of myself though.  I'm going to miss fall.  As much as I love the holiday season, the bright lights, the decorations, and hopefully (fingers and toes crossed) lots of snow, I'll miss the crunch of leaves underfoot;  The crispness in the air that only fall can manage.  I'll miss the colors of the trees in the yard and on the highways where usually that's the only thing worth looking at in the monotony of cars and pavement.  I'll miss the scents that linger in the air, scents I can't really describe, but are there nonetheless.

Tomorrow, fall will wither away like the fading leaves on the trees, slowly becoming bare.

There's a beauty there all it's own though, and as usual, nature replaces one beauty with another.   Things now though will pick up, people will either be a little bit kinder or a little bit more rude, in some cases a lot more rude.  Drivers will be more likely to honk their horns at you, or flip you off as they drive by.  People in the malls won't smile as often or as freely.  Everyone will be in a hurry, going here and there, preparing, in too  many cases spending too much money for too many things.

To me, fall is simpler, easier, like the calm before the storm.  I'm looking forward to Christmas, don't get me wrong, but I'll miss fall when it's gone too.  I'll look forward to it all year, until once more the leaves start to fade from green to brilliant orange and red and yellow, to finally drop to the ground to crunch under my bare feet (yes, bare) and leave the tree limbs naked as they spike up into the not quite as blue skies.

I'm going to send it out with a bang though, decorating starts tomorrow so that I can enjoy the Christmas season, kinda like Cindy Lou Who before the Grinch saved the day.  Hopefully I'll find a Grinch for the Riley family, but if not?  Well that's okay too, a tree is just as beautiful all dressed up without anything tumbled beneath it to take away from it's splendor.

So, I guess that's it.  Happy Thanksgiving one and all, and for those who don't celebrate the day, Happy Thursday.  Make it a thanksgiving Thursday, and remember how many blessings we all have, because no matter how rough life gets, no matter how many trials we have to endure, in the end, it's our life and that in itself is enough to be thankful for.




Wednesday, November 10, 2010

Thanksgiving - What are you thankful for?

Facebook is full of people listing in their status messages all the things that they're thankful for each day.  I'm not all that big on status updates, I barely keep up with the few I do post and my daughter and I have come to an agreement that when you add someone on Facebook, you suddenly learn more about them than you ever thought possible.  Still though, I've always looked at Thanksgiving as more than the Turkey and fixins.  Granted, I absolutely love fixing the big dinner, I love the formality of linens and matching china and silver, the floral arrangements and candles on the table and the delicate serving bowls glistening in the light.  I love having my family gathered around the table talking and enjoying each other's company.  Life is so busy that I think a lot of people lose out on that family time.


So with that said, although I'm a bit behind, I'm going to do the thankful thing here.  I'll make up for lost time and post the first days of the month and come back and edit the post each day to add the current day.  Comment and tell me what you're thankful for too!

November 1 - I'm thankful that I woke up to see another November.

November 2 - I'm thankful that my daughter got to vote for the first time today and that we got to spend the day together.

November 3 - I'm thankful for the beautiful pictures we took at the park and that I was able to do her senior portraits myself so she could actually have some done.

November 4 - I'm thankful for being able to go outside and enjoy the fresh air.

November 5 - I'm thankful that it's Friday and I got a text from my daughter on her date to let me know she loves me.

November 6 - I'm thankful for waking up to sunshine.

November 7 - I'm thankful that I have a family who puts up with me being sick and grumpy.

November 8 - I'm thankful for clean sheets.

November 9 - I'm thankful for the light at the end of the tunnel.

November 10 - I'm thankful that I've got the time and ability to write.

November 11 - I'm thankful for my old classic car with the sunroof and a great radio.

November 12 - I'm thankful for flannel sheets.

November 13 - I'm thankful for hot chocolate.

November 14 - I'm thankful for people who know me and still like me.

November 15 - I'm thankful for Bath & Body Works

November 16 - I'm thankful for Christmas lights that make everything pretty no matter where you put them.

November 17 - I'm thankful that some people still care enough to bother.

November 18 - I'm thankful for my husband's expense checks.

November 19 - I'm thankful for friends with guitar and vocal skills.

November 20 - I'm thankful for lazy weekends.

November 21 - I'm thankful for Michael Pitt

November 22 - I'm thankful that my husband takes my daughter to school at the crack of dawn.

November 23 - I'm thankful for school holidays.

November 24 - I'm thankful for parents who understand and care about me.
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